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Lessons from LeAnn
Over 40% of families who provide care for an elder have children at home under the age of eighteen. Seventy-five percent of caregivers are women. Part of the “sandwich generation,” many will spend more years caring for a parent than they will raising a child.
Here are 12 easy tips for you to help care for that caregiver:
- Extend compassion and empathy first.
- Deliver a heat-and-eat meal.
- Offer to sit with their loved one, even for 30 minutes, so they can take a bubble bath or a walk.
- Encourage them to care for themselves as attentively as they do another. Remind them to get regular checkups, to eat properly, exercise, and get adequate sleep.
- Suggest they take time out for themselves and use relaxation or stress management techniques such as meditation, visualization, or yoga.
- Advise them to pay attention to their own feelings and emotions and to seek counseling and support groups if needed.
- Listen.
- Help them to stay actively involved with friends and hobbies.
- Assist them in finding respite care so they can regularly take time for themselves.
- Gift them with a copy of my book Chicken Soup for the Caregivers Soul.
- Help them tap into community-based and national resources for support. The Area Agency on Aging is great places to start.
- Tell them how much you admire them for all they are doing.
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